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LIFT HIGH THE CROSS
Weldon's Memorial Service was a witness to forbearance. Forbearance was and continues to be shared for Weldon, his family, his friends and acquaintances. The enduring kindness, and oh so compassionate forgiveness surrounding Weldon's life and this Service were a blessing for which human gratitude is insufficient.
The Memorial Service was at St. John's Lutheran in Napoleon, OH (photo header). Weldon was baptized into the life, death and resurrection of Jesus, the ultimate act of forbearing love. Lift High The Cross was a favorite hymn of Weldon.

Relationships today need and can only exist with a spirit of mutual forbearance. Technical definitions of forbearance include:
In today's hyper-charged culture it is easy to view others as undeserving or even beholding to my values and point of view. I struggle with this daily. However, it is known that loving forbearance is so much more powerful than passive tolerance. And importantly, more often than not I need to be on the receiving end of forbearance because I have been difficult, disagreeable and undeserving of the blessings of being in relationship.

We love to visit Lair O the Bear Park. LyNette, Weldon, Kayleen and Rob are pictured at the park in 2022 at what we know as "the family tree". This park has many trees, a stream named "Bear Creek" and big hills up into the mountains.
Weldon and Marlene's ashes now rest in this park at an overlook of Bear Creek on the Bruin Bluff trail.

While Weldon's ashes were not at the Memorial Service, his hat was. It had become fashionable to see Weldon donning this hat when we visited together during the later years of his life.
This photo, where Weldon was with great grandson Bennett and daughter LyNette was taken at the Mineral Museum on the campus of the School of Mines. It was probably a toss-up as to who was more curious, Bennett or Weldon. Curiosity spans generations. Maybe Weldon's hair was as wild as Bennett's and that's why he wore 'the hat'.
Our recent trip to the Midwest had many memorable moments beyond the Memorial Service. We arrived in Plainfield just a few hours after a tornado. Downed trees were everywhere. Our time in Plainfield was filled with loving hospitality. The grandchildren started a new year of school.
We had a special lunch with Arlene at Sauder Village and an informal but delightful family reunion at Rob and Kayleen's home the evening before the Service. It was so good connecting with Andy, Christine (at Trinity English Lutheran) and Michele for a wonderful lunch in Fort Wayne. The Fort Wayne Zoo topped off our visit back home in Indiana.
Below is a sampling of snapshots.
Liam, ready for his first day of First Grade!

There were 41 shootings in Chicago the last weekend in August, and no arrests. The police aren't staffed or supported to make a meaningful difference in Chicago crime reduction. Automated License Plate Readers (ALPR) and Gunshot Detection Systems (GDS) have also been in the news. These tools are meant to help police. The professed worry is that these systems, deployed in many municipalities, may violate personal liberty rights, especially if misused.
This worry is a peculiar confluence of agreement between the far left (defending the liberty of individuals who may have used automobiles and/or guns in the commission of a crime) and the far right (defending the liberty of 2nd Amendment advocates and just personal privacy). Admittedly the cause for the worry may be different, but there is unity in worry and little or no forbearance for the public good these devices help assure. If the focal point for no forbearance with devise existence centers on the potential for "misuse", why wouldn't the proper course of action be to prevent the misuse? And, aren't there so many other devices, starting with our phones, where the risk to one's liberty and/or privacy are in far greater peril? The hysteria around these devices doesn't make sense.
August 2026 - FIRE AND RAIN
July 2026 - 250-150-100-0
June 2026 - PURELY PAVLOVIAN
May 2026 - WITH GRATITUDE
April 2026 - YOU SAY POTATO
March 2026 - THE MIRACLE MOLECULE
February 2026 - ULNAR NERVE
January 2026 - RESOLUTE RESOLUTIONS
December 2025 - WINNER, WINNER
November 2025 - I SEE SAINTS
October 2025 - SQUANDER
September 2025 - YOU CAN'T GET THERE
August 2025 - GREATEST SHOWMAN

Two farmers at the FTW Zoo Farm? Hardly so, but we cherished visiting Ohio family farmers in August.
September 3, 2026